- The next time you look in the mirror say something positive about yourself.
- Show appreciation for someone’s point of view today. Say something like, “Hey, that is a cool idea.”
- Think of a limiting paradigm you might have of yourself, such as, “I’m not outgoing.” Now, do something today that totally contradicts that paradigm.
- Think of a loved one or close friend who has been acting out of character lately. Consider what might be causing them to act that way.
- When you have nothing to do, what is it that occupies your thoughts? Remember, whatever is most important to you will become your paradigm or Life-Center.
- The Golden Rule rules! Begin today to treat others as you would want them to treat you. Don’t be impatient, complain about leftovers, or bad-mouth someone, unless you want the same treatment.
- Sometime soon, find a quiet place where you can be alone. Think about what matters most to you.
- Listen carefully to the lyrics of the music you listen to most frequently. Evaluate if they are in harmony with the principles you believe in.
- When you do your chores at home or work tonight, try out the principle of hard work. Go the extra mile and do more than is expected.
- The next time you’re in a tough situation and don’t know what to do, ask yourself, “What principle should I apply (g. honesty, love, loyalty, hard work, patience)?” Now, follow the principle and don’t look back.
Source: The 7 Habits of Highly Effective Teens by Sean Covey